How can I help my girlfriend lose weight without making it seem like I'm trying to get her to lose weight?

My girlfriend is a little chubby, and I want to get her to lose weight but i don't want her to think I'm trying to get her to lose weight. Hopefully I will be able to make her loose weight fast. I don't want to have to tell her to go to the gym or eat a little less. Im thinking to make her drop at least 20-30 pounds. Any ideas?How can I help my girlfriend lose weight without making it seem like I'm trying to get her to lose weight?
let her read this


http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/2279805/lose_weight_by_drinking_water.html?cat=51How can I help my girlfriend lose weight without making it seem like I'm trying to get her to lose weight?
man why u feel guilty if u showed her that u r not satisfied with her weight ? shes ur partner and u gotta feel free to say whatever is in ur mind , in fact u r tryin to HELP her and pushing her forward .. coz the overweight person is just someone who doesnt care about hes health and also doesnt care about lookin good infront of hes partner , and this is BAD.


your r not doing wrong so u gotta tell her exactly what u feel .... and trust me there is nothing shallow about it coz when it comes to a succesful relationships u better like what u see outside and inside , u have to love her personality AND the way she looks too feel me??


so here is what u have to do :


1- TELL HER WHAT U THINK , nicely


2- Show her how pretty she is and these fats are hiding her beauty


3- Help and support her !!! dont just give instructions


4- if u r overweight too try to challenge her like ';who gonna lose wight faster';





by the way i was a slightly overweight too , and my girl told me that i have to fix that , and just did it without feeling offended , coz she told me so because she CARES , and i fixed it coz I CARE about how she feels
Stop trying to manipulate and control your girlfriend.





Accept her as she is.





Or, if you are so shallow that you are only interested in how she looks, break up with her -- you'll be doing her a favour and she can replace you with a man who appreciates her for herself and not her looks.
What do you mean ';without makin it seem like you are trying to get her to lose weight';?? That's the truth. That is so mean. If she isn't what you want, go find someone else. There is no need in hurting her feelings by making her feel like something is wrong with her.
How about get fit together and losing some weight together? Are you thin and fit?





Go on walks together, go swimming, go to the track and walk. Go to the park. Ride bikes, climb.





Do not go out to eat as much. Stay home and make healthy meals together.
try sneaking in exercise with her. like, if you go somewhere, park far away from the entrance.





take walks after meals together.





take the long way whenever you two walk somewhere.





stroll through the park as a date.





healthy food picnics.
cook healthy food for her..maybe she doesnt have time to tend to her diet, so you can help her out
ok, ur an *** first of all


secondly, if u eat better and excersise, then she might.
Go duck yourself!
i broke up with her. shes too fat
why would you wanna do that